Choking (with partner)

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Choking (with partner)

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Sexual arousal by choking someone

Strangulation is the act of choking someone until they pass out. It is incredibly dangerous and can lead to brain damage. It should only be done with someone you trust as it can easily cause serious harm. Always start small and increase the intensity slowly until it is comfortable for both parties. Remember to keep communication open and to take breaks often. Never choke someone who has not given full consent or who has been drinking alcohol or taking drugs. Safety is always most important!

Generally speaking, there are two types of suffocation:

“Blood choke”

Where blood supply to the brain is blocked. Shuts down the brain within 5-14 seconds. Can be fatal if not triggered at the right time. Requires careful practice and caution. Not for beginners. Can cause serious physical injury or even death, so be extremely careful when performing this activity!

“Air choke”

Prevents breathing and the partner typically passes out after 1/2 to 5 minutes. It is important to ensure that the person who is choking is safe and can quickly get out of the situation if necessary.

See possibly also: Suffocation (by self) and Breath Play

Interesting links about Asphyxophilia

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